Sunday, 25 September 2011
抱歉
我很抱歉，如果我不能做到这一点。请不要难过。。但是我会尽我所能因为我不要给必人收到我的痛苦让我一个人把了承受，不过我也会让命运决定。请不要伤心因为我也会很难过 :'( 。我真的对不起你。请你原谅我，我也不想这样，我不要帮他说话了但是你要我跟他和好，好吧我帮他和好让你没讲难过。我也想原谅他的 不过真的过不到我的良心。后来我发现我还不可以原谅他，我知道你一定很伤心的，我不自到怎么办了。我不要失去你自位好朋友
Saturday, 24 September 2011
No Regret
Regret??Oh Sorry i don't how to spell it because i will never know that word in my life Again(!)
Monday, 1 August 2011
Long time
almost 1 and half month didn't update blog ad ...Always busing with FB now no more FB
now use some time to update blog,Twitting and Tumblr-ing and also study:)
FB is really making me become more terrible..now NO MORE FACEBOOK..
hurm...exam one time more terrible then the other's time -.-...Now..just use 10 min to open FB only everyday Only check Notifications and STALK for a while X) ..
now use some time to update blog,Twitting and Tumblr-ing and also study:)
FB is really making me become more terrible..now NO MORE FACEBOOK..
hurm...exam one time more terrible then the other's time -.-...Now..just use 10 min to open FB only everyday Only check Notifications and STALK for a while X) ..
Friday, 17 June 2011
Monday, 30 May 2011
Sunday, 29 May 2011
Saturday, 28 May 2011
Wednesday, 11 May 2011
=,=
why people like to make other people feel jealous of each other ??
This will make you uncomfortable, upset and hate each other ..
If the person is wise she will not do that ..
It does not bring good to do so even if it brings detrimental..
It will also making other people sad ..
Do not be to adopt this attitude.
Please think for other person too not only think for yourself ..
This will make you uncomfortable, upset and hate each other ..
If the person is wise she will not do that ..
It does not bring good to do so even if it brings detrimental..
It will also making other people sad ..
Do not be to adopt this attitude.
Please think for other person too not only think for yourself ..
Monday, 9 May 2011
Saturday, 7 May 2011
What is a dream ??
What is a dream?
A dream is a magical thingA rainbow of joy in your heart
Your own secret corner
Where no one can go
Where the path
To fulfillment can start
A dream lures you on,Always one step ahead
Until you have caught it,
And then there's always another
To capture your soul
And lead you onward again
Friday, 6 May 2011
Opportunity
Age is opportunity no less
Than youth itself, though in another dress,
And as the evening twilight fades away
The sky is filled with stars, invisible by day.
Than youth itself, though in another dress,
And as the evening twilight fades away
The sky is filled with stars, invisible by day.
Thursday, 5 May 2011
Memories
Memories are heartbeats
Sounding through the years
Echoes never fading
Of our smiles and our tears.
Moments that are captured
Sometimes unaware
Pictured in an album
Or a lock of hair.
Images that linger
Deep within the mind
Bit of verse we cherished
Once upon a time.
Through the musty hallways
Of the days we knew
Ever comes the vision
Beautiful and true.
Memories are roses
Blooming evermore
Full of fragrant sweetness
Never known before.
Life must have a meaning
Goals for which to strive
Memories are lights that burn
To keep the heart alive.
Sounding through the years
Echoes never fading
Of our smiles and our tears.
Moments that are captured
Sometimes unaware
Pictured in an album
Or a lock of hair.
Images that linger
Deep within the mind
Bit of verse we cherished
Once upon a time.
Through the musty hallways
Of the days we knew
Ever comes the vision
Beautiful and true.
Memories are roses
Blooming evermore
Full of fragrant sweetness
Never known before.
Life must have a meaning
Goals for which to strive
Memories are lights that burn
To keep the heart alive.
Wednesday, 4 May 2011
Always Have A Dream
Forget about the days
when it's been cloudy,
but don't forget your hours in the sun.
Forget about the times
you've been defeated,
but don't forget the victories you've won.
Forget about the mistakes
that you can't change now,
but don't forget the lessons.
Forget about the misfortunes
you've encountered,
but don't forget the times
your luck has turned.
Forget about the days
when you've been lonely,
but don't forget the friendly
smiles you've seen...
Forget about the plans
that didn't seem to work out right,
but don't forget to always have a dream.
when it's been cloudy,
but don't forget your hours in the sun.
Forget about the times
you've been defeated,
but don't forget the victories you've won.
Forget about the mistakes
that you can't change now,
but don't forget the lessons.
Forget about the misfortunes
you've encountered,
but don't forget the times
your luck has turned.
Forget about the days
when you've been lonely,
but don't forget the friendly
smiles you've seen...
Forget about the plans
that didn't seem to work out right,
but don't forget to always have a dream.
Hold Fast To Dreams
Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly
.Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly
.Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.
Tuesday, 3 May 2011
A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams, you will lose your heartache
Whatever you wish for, you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smilin' through
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you'll keep on believing
The dream that you wish for will come true
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you'll keep on believing
The dream that you wish for will come true
When you're fast asleep
In dreams, you will lose your heartache
Whatever you wish for, you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smilin' through
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you'll keep on believing
The dream that you wish for will come true
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you'll keep on believing
The dream that you wish for will come true
Monday, 2 May 2011
Hold Fast To Dreams
Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow..
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow..
Sunday, 1 May 2011
hahahaxz
Not Enough
It's not enough to have a dream,
unless you're willing to pursue it.
It's not enough to know what's right,
unless you're strong enough to do it.
It's not enough to learn the truth,
unless you also learn to live it.
It's not enough to reach for love,
unless you care enough to give it.
unless you're willing to pursue it.
It's not enough to know what's right,
unless you're strong enough to do it.
It's not enough to learn the truth,
unless you also learn to live it.
It's not enough to reach for love,
unless you care enough to give it.
Saturday, 30 April 2011
Keep Smiling =)
If at times you feel you want to cry
And life seems such a trial
Above the clouds there's a bright blue sky
So make your tears a smile.
As you travel on life's way
With its many ups and downs
Remember its quite true to say
One smile is worth a dozen frowns..
Among the worlds expensive things
A smile is very cheap
And when you give a smile away,
You get one back to keep.
Happiness comes at times to all
But sadness comes unbidden
And sometimes a few tears must fall
Among the laughter hidden.
So when friends have sadness on their face
And troubles round them piled
The world will seem a better place
And all because you smiled.
And life seems such a trial
Above the clouds there's a bright blue sky
So make your tears a smile.
As you travel on life's way
With its many ups and downs
Remember its quite true to say
One smile is worth a dozen frowns..
Among the worlds expensive things
A smile is very cheap
And when you give a smile away,
You get one back to keep.
Happiness comes at times to all
But sadness comes unbidden
And sometimes a few tears must fall
Among the laughter hidden.
So when friends have sadness on their face
And troubles round them piled
The world will seem a better place
And all because you smiled.
A New Chance
When doubts and fears are growing,
It's hard to keep on going
From day to day not knowing
Just what the end will be.
Take each day as you find it,
If things go wrong, don't mind it,
For each day leaves behind it
A chance to start anew.
It's hard to keep on going
From day to day not knowing
Just what the end will be.
Take each day as you find it,
If things go wrong, don't mind it,
For each day leaves behind it
A chance to start anew.
Friday, 29 April 2011
Thursday, 28 April 2011
A Memory is a Photograph
A memory is a photograph
taken by the heart
to make a special moment
last forever...
And of all the memory-pictures
that happy times can bring,
the best are those
that families make together...
taken by the heart
to make a special moment
last forever...
And of all the memory-pictures
that happy times can bring,
the best are those
that families make together...
Wednesday, 27 April 2011
Tuesday, 26 April 2011
Reminiscing
There's a place within our hearts
Where we keep our favorite memories,
The ones that never fail to make us smile ---
And when life becomes too hectic
It's such a special feeling
To close our eyes and reminisce awhile.
Where we keep our favorite memories,
The ones that never fail to make us smile ---
And when life becomes too hectic
It's such a special feeling
To close our eyes and reminisce awhile.
Monday, 25 April 2011
Life is Full of Surprises
Life, is certainly, full of surprises.
There are new things happening, everyday.
It may be hard, to keep up with these occurrences,
but we do our best, come what may
Some I can say, are happy ones,
which all of us like to get.
Then there are those, I'd like to propose,
we try very hard, to forget.
We'd much rather look forward,
to good things and take every bit of it in.
Who needs to worry and get ourselves,
in a tail spin. If there are to be surprises,
may they always be, of the very best kind.
Now, I feel so much better,
because I got a load off of my mind!!
There are new things happening, everyday.
It may be hard, to keep up with these occurrences,
but we do our best, come what may
Some I can say, are happy ones,
which all of us like to get.
Then there are those, I'd like to propose,
we try very hard, to forget.
We'd much rather look forward,
to good things and take every bit of it in.
Who needs to worry and get ourselves,
in a tail spin. If there are to be surprises,
may they always be, of the very best kind.
Now, I feel so much better,
because I got a load off of my mind!!
Friday, 22 April 2011
Live in the Present
One day at a time
this is enough.
Do not look back
and grieve over the past
for it is gone;
and do not be troubled
about the future
for it has not yet come.
Live in the present
and make it so beautiful
that it will be worth
remembering!
this is enough.
Do not look back
and grieve over the past
for it is gone;
and do not be troubled
about the future
for it has not yet come.
Live in the present
and make it so beautiful
that it will be worth
remembering!
Don't think too much
Now you need is rest your mind...
going to bed.
Down on the pillow you lays your head..
wraps yourself in the covers tight,
And sleeps with your teddy bear and pillow all through the night.
going to bed.
Down on the pillow you lays your head..
wraps yourself in the covers tight,
And sleeps with your teddy bear and pillow all through the night.
It Might Have Been
Of all sad words
of tongue or pen
The saddest are these:
"It might have been."
I'll add this thought
unto this verse:
It might have been
a great deal worse!
T.T
of tongue or pen
The saddest are these:
"It might have been."
I'll add this thought
unto this verse:
It might have been
a great deal worse!
T.T
Unless
Unless we can hear
each other singing and crying,
unless we can comfort
each other's failures
and cheer each other's victories,
we are missing out on the best
that life has to offer.
The only real action takes place
on the bridge between people.
each other singing and crying,
unless we can comfort
each other's failures
and cheer each other's victories,
we are missing out on the best
that life has to offer.
The only real action takes place
on the bridge between people.
Old Memories
I treasure sweet old memories
As time goes swiftly by.
A few bring smiles of happiness
And some tears to the eye.
They all are precious in their way,
Reopening doors of old
That have been shut these many years--
What pictures they unfold!
These dear old, sweet old memories
All play their special part
In bringing joy and opening up
The latch strings of the heart
.
As time goes swiftly by.
A few bring smiles of happiness
And some tears to the eye.
They all are precious in their way,
Reopening doors of old
That have been shut these many years--
What pictures they unfold!
These dear old, sweet old memories
All play their special part
In bringing joy and opening up
The latch strings of the heart
Thursday, 21 April 2011
She won't cry
You see the pain that lies in her eyes
But, alas, her eyes are dry,
She won't cry
No, She won't cry.
You see the anger that burns from her eyes
The madness that sets her eyes ablaze,
She won't cry
No, She won't cry.
You see the fear that closes her eyes
The smile she wears is but a disguise
She won't cry
No, She won't cry.
You see death's hand that has glazed her eyes
No one saw her die inside
They won't cry
No, they won't cry.
But, alas, her eyes are dry,
She won't cry
No, She won't cry.
You see the anger that burns from her eyes
The madness that sets her eyes ablaze,
She won't cry
No, She won't cry.
You see the fear that closes her eyes
The smile she wears is but a disguise
She won't cry
No, She won't cry.
You see death's hand that has glazed her eyes
No one saw her die inside
They won't cry
No, they won't cry.
You see her happy exterior
But despite the sadness in her heart
one day she will suddenly cry ...
But despite the sadness in her heart
one day she will suddenly cry ...
Crying
Everybody cries sometimes, and if you don't you should. Crying is a natural way of letting go of pent up emotions. It is sad fact that many children are shamed for crying. Adults who are led to believe that crying is not OK may repress their feeling of sadness. Emotions that are not allowed to release tend to leak out in other areas of their lives. The ability to express our emotions whether alone or in communication to others is necessary for a happy life.
Tuesday, 19 April 2011
Thank You for the Light
Into the dim lit, bare walls of my world,
You entered, bringing light and life to me,
The vivid colors, painted with a swirl
Of wit and charm, of personality,
With tender care, you added comfort, warmth,
And images that line the now bright walls.
I look upon them fondly, bringing forth
A thankfulness that you walk in these halls
With me; our friendship has become a part
Of my world now; it has its special place,
Within my being, life, and in my heart,
Your name hangs right beside your smiling face..
,Remembering just how drab these walls had been
I have to thank you for the light,
You entered, bringing light and life to me,
The vivid colors, painted with a swirl
Of wit and charm, of personality,
With tender care, you added comfort, warmth,
And images that line the now bright walls.
I look upon them fondly, bringing forth
A thankfulness that you walk in these halls
With me; our friendship has become a part
Of my world now; it has its special place,
Within my being, life, and in my heart,
Your name hangs right beside your smiling face..
,Remembering just how drab these walls had been
I have to thank you for the light,
Monday, 18 April 2011
Come to me when u are sad
Come to me when u are mad
Come to me when ur in love
I'll be there with open arms for you
But as I open them
All i see is lonely me without u my friend
This feeling that I have
Of hurt and desire
Is just me missing u
Every waking hour
I pray to god that u won't leave
So u can stay forever with me
But as u see ur not here
My worst fear is now near
Without u life can't go on
But i guess i have to be strong
I'll think about you forever
Until we are together Friends
Come to me when u are mad
Come to me when ur in love
I'll be there with open arms for you
But as I open them
All i see is lonely me without u my friend
This feeling that I have
Of hurt and desire
Is just me missing u
Every waking hour
I pray to god that u won't leave
So u can stay forever with me
But as u see ur not here
My worst fear is now near
Without u life can't go on
But i guess i have to be strong
I'll think about you forever
Until we are together Friends
i wonder
I Wonder
every minute in an hour
every hour in my day
i wonder if thats really
what you mean to say
i wonder if you find it better
or if you regret it all
i wonder what you thought
when i cried inside the bathroom stall
i wonder if you ever cared
or if you lied all along.
i wonder if you think your right
or completely wrong
i wonder if you ever stop and think
of all the pain you put me through
i wonder if you'll ever realize
i wonder if you ever thought
it was a mistake to leave me all alone
with my heart in an ache
i wonder if you ever wonder
what i think or feel
i wonder if i'll ever get
the time i need to heal
i wonder if one day we'll
get back to being best friends ever
or stay strangers forever
somtimes i wish we could go back
to when it was you+me
only one things for sure
and this quote should fit
"you never know what you have untill you lose" ...
Stay strangers forever or being best friends Forever ??
choose yourself..
every minute in an hour
every hour in my day
i wonder if thats really
what you mean to say
i wonder if you find it better
or if you regret it all
i wonder what you thought
when i cried inside the bathroom stall
i wonder if you ever cared
or if you lied all along.
i wonder if you think your right
or completely wrong
i wonder if you ever stop and think
of all the pain you put me through
i wonder if you'll ever realize
i wonder if you ever thought
it was a mistake to leave me all alone
with my heart in an ache
i wonder if you ever wonder
what i think or feel
i wonder if i'll ever get
the time i need to heal
i wonder if one day we'll
get back to being best friends ever
or stay strangers forever
somtimes i wish we could go back
to when it was you+me
only one things for sure
and this quote should fit
"you never know what you have untill you lose" ...
Stay strangers forever or being best friends Forever ??
choose yourself..
My Wish for You
I wish you happiness -
The kind that's deep within your soul
and shines through your eyes.
I wish you serenity
and a sense of perspective
that calms you and lends you understanding
in the most difficult times.
I wish you success
in every facet of your life;
Satisfaction and contentment
in everything you do.
I wish you dreams
with the promise of their fulfillment;
a lifetime of extraordinary memories
and a path which leads to beautiful tomorrows
Above all I wish you could see
What a difference you make in my life
and how grateful I am to know you.
The kind that's deep within your soul
and shines through your eyes.
I wish you serenity
and a sense of perspective
that calms you and lends you understanding
in the most difficult times.
I wish you success
in every facet of your life;
Satisfaction and contentment
in everything you do.
I wish you dreams
with the promise of their fulfillment;
a lifetime of extraordinary memories
and a path which leads to beautiful tomorrows
Above all I wish you could see
What a difference you make in my life
and how grateful I am to know you.
Sunday, 17 April 2011
A Part of My Life
A Part of My Life
Somehow, out of all the twists and turnsour lives could have taken,
and out of all the chances
we might have missed,
it almost seems like we were given
a meant-to-be moment...
to meet, to get to know each other,
and to set the stage for a special togetherness.
I am so thankful you're in my life.
Saturday, 16 April 2011
Friend versus Best Friend
A friend has never seen you cry.
Your best friend has shoulders soggy from your tears..
A friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
Your best friend has their phone numbers in her address book.
A friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
Your best friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
Your best friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
Your best friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A friend wonders about your romantic history.
Your best friend could blackmail you with it.
A friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
Your best friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself
A friend expects you to always be there for them.
Your best friend expects to always be there for you!
A friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.Your best friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.
Your best friend has shoulders soggy from your tears..
A friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
Your best friend has their phone numbers in her address book.
A friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
Your best friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
Your best friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
Your best friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A friend wonders about your romantic history.
Your best friend could blackmail you with it.
A friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
Your best friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself
A friend expects you to always be there for them.
Your best friend expects to always be there for you!
A friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.Your best friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.
If one Day...
If one day you feel like crying...
Call me.
I don't promise that I will make you laugh,
But I can cry with you.
If one day you want to run away...
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stop...
But I can run with you.
If one day you don't want to listen to anyone...
Call me.
I promise to be there for you.
And I promise to be very quiet.
If one day you need to share your problems
call me
your problem is my problems too
I'm a good listener..
But if one day you call...
And there is no answer...
Come fast to see me.
Maybe I need you.
Call me.
I don't promise that I will make you laugh,
But I can cry with you.
If one day you want to run away...
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stop...
But I can run with you.
If one day you don't want to listen to anyone...
Call me.
I promise to be there for you.
And I promise to be very quiet.
If one day you need to share your problems
call me
your problem is my problems too
I'm a good listener..
But if one day you call...
And there is no answer...
Come fast to see me.
Maybe I need you.
A Friend's Smiling Face
There is a place I like to go
Whenever I'm feeling
Lonely or sad -
A place of sunshine,
Laughter and love
That always leaves me
Feeling glad.
There I share my secrets,
Hopes and fears,
For this warm, inviting place -
Always waiting, always welcoming -
is found in my friend's smiling face.
The world is a more beautiful place
because of friends like you
Whenever I'm feeling
Lonely or sad -
A place of sunshine,
Laughter and love
That always leaves me
Feeling glad.
There I share my secrets,
Hopes and fears,
For this warm, inviting place -
Always waiting, always welcoming -
is found in my friend's smiling face.
The world is a more beautiful place
because of friends like you
Let's Not Wait
We will meet again my friend,
A hundred years from today
Far away from where we lived
And where we used to play.
We will know each others' eyes
And wonder where we met
Your laugh will sound familiar
Your heart, I won't forget.
We will meet, I'm sure of this,
But let's not wait till then...
Let's take a walk beneath the stars
And share this world again.
A hundred years from today
Far away from where we lived
And where we used to play.
We will know each others' eyes
And wonder where we met
Your laugh will sound familiar
Your heart, I won't forget.
We will meet, I'm sure of this,
But let's not wait till then...
Let's take a walk beneath the stars
And share this world again.
Friday, 15 April 2011
Saturday, 2 April 2011
MISTAKE..
We Are human ,and all the human will make mistake too..we all make mistake ..but did you ever notice ??
Making a mistake doesn't mean We are a bad person, or stupid, or any of the things that sometimespop into our head when we find that we've made a mistake. All it means is that we are human. And humans make mistakes...
All Human will make mistake ,That's what I'm telling myself right now...We are humans, We will make mistake..
Luckily, partway into my rant about myself, I remembered: I'm human, I make mistakes. Everybody makes mistakes. Even the best writers, the best teachers, speechwriters, speech givers, editors, everybody. People everywhere make mistakes because people are human, and it is part of the human condition that we make mistakes.
As We keep repeating the mantra for the day (I'm human, I make mistakes, I'm human, I make mistakes), you'll starting to feel better, and you'll beginning to look for what you can learn from this situation. you know there is something to learn, because there always is, and if we don't learn from this, then some of the bad things you've said about yourself might just be true.
What can we learn from this most recent mistake of our's?
To err is human. As the old adage states, every one of us makes mistakes and it is a norm that is to be accepted and forgiven - partially true.
No one is perfect
No person breathing right now is perfect. This means that everyone has some sort of fault or flaw. There may be people who try to be perfect or who think that they are perfect but no one is perfect.
We all live with regrets
Regret is nothing more than wishing you could change a specific situation in life. These regrets normally surface over the issue of mistakes. We all have situations that we wish that we had been able to handle differently. The only way to handle regrets is to overcome past ones and handle similar situations differently in the future.
Mistakes cannot be changed
Once a moment is gone, there is no way to get it back. The past is indeed set in stone and along with it are our mistakes. There are many people living in the shadow of their mistakes and failures. Instead of living trapped by those mistakes, deal with them head on. The longer you avoid facing your mistakes, the longer you delay overcoming them.
Mistakes are often repeated
People and societies seem to be guilty of making the same mistakes again and again. There are patterns of behavior that seem to trap people in a vicious cycle of mistakes. The good news is that this pattern can be broken with some effort and determination.
=)
Making a mistake doesn't mean We are a bad person, or stupid, or any of the things that sometimespop into our head when we find that we've made a mistake. All it means is that we are human. And humans make mistakes...
All Human will make mistake ,That's what I'm telling myself right now...We are humans, We will make mistake..
Luckily, partway into my rant about myself, I remembered: I'm human, I make mistakes. Everybody makes mistakes. Even the best writers, the best teachers, speechwriters, speech givers, editors, everybody. People everywhere make mistakes because people are human, and it is part of the human condition that we make mistakes.
As We keep repeating the mantra for the day (I'm human, I make mistakes, I'm human, I make mistakes), you'll starting to feel better, and you'll beginning to look for what you can learn from this situation. you know there is something to learn, because there always is, and if we don't learn from this, then some of the bad things you've said about yourself might just be true.
What can we learn from this most recent mistake of our's?
To err is human. As the old adage states, every one of us makes mistakes and it is a norm that is to be accepted and forgiven - partially true.
No one is perfect
No person breathing right now is perfect. This means that everyone has some sort of fault or flaw. There may be people who try to be perfect or who think that they are perfect but no one is perfect.
We all live with regrets
Regret is nothing more than wishing you could change a specific situation in life. These regrets normally surface over the issue of mistakes. We all have situations that we wish that we had been able to handle differently. The only way to handle regrets is to overcome past ones and handle similar situations differently in the future.
Mistakes cannot be changed
Once a moment is gone, there is no way to get it back. The past is indeed set in stone and along with it are our mistakes. There are many people living in the shadow of their mistakes and failures. Instead of living trapped by those mistakes, deal with them head on. The longer you avoid facing your mistakes, the longer you delay overcoming them.
Mistakes are often repeated
People and societies seem to be guilty of making the same mistakes again and again. There are patterns of behavior that seem to trap people in a vicious cycle of mistakes. The good news is that this pattern can be broken with some effort and determination.
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Friday, 1 April 2011
Forget The past
Forget the Past
Sometimes, events that happen in our life make us feel tired, burdened, or regretful. We spend too much time thinking about a horrible deed we've committed, even though we can no longer change it. So how do we move on from a bad experience?
Accept that it happened. It's not the easiest thing to do, but it will help you get on your way. The past is a part of your life now, but it is not the most important part. Accept the fact that it can no longer be changed in any way.
Live in the present. This one is kind of hard, since the present is easy to take for granted. Know that by constantly using your present time wisely, you are constantly making a better past for yourself.
Forgive. Yourself or the ones that hurt you. Cut some slack to others and yourself. Nobody asks to be given a bad memory. People are not perfect. Everyone is prone to make mistakes. That's how people are. And the only way to really move on from a bad experience is to forgive the people involved
Just forgive them for whatever they have done and don't ever be sad. They are human too and make mistakes. Just look for hope because "fear can hold you as a prisoner and hope can set you free."
Remember that, in real life, hardly anyone even knew about your embarrassing mistake, and especially now, because everyone is so self centered, and they probably forgot or didnt care anyway. and if they do remember, that means they are lamer than you. they should get over it. point is, YOU ARE FREE NOW, YOU BLEW IT AWAY! It is good for you!! go take on the day
JUST FORGET THE PAST ,and start a new life ...
Sometimes, events that happen in our life make us feel tired, burdened, or regretful. We spend too much time thinking about a horrible deed we've committed, even though we can no longer change it. So how do we move on from a bad experience?
Live in the present. This one is kind of hard, since the present is easy to take for granted. Know that by constantly using your present time wisely, you are constantly making a better past for yourself.
Forgive. Yourself or the ones that hurt you. Cut some slack to others and yourself. Nobody asks to be given a bad memory. People are not perfect. Everyone is prone to make mistakes. That's how people are. And the only way to really move on from a bad experience is to forgive the people involved
Just forgive them for whatever they have done and don't ever be sad. They are human too and make mistakes. Just look for hope because "fear can hold you as a prisoner and hope can set you free."
JUST FORGET THE PAST ,and start a new life ...
A TruE FriendshiP =)
A real friend is someone who is there for you when the chips are down. They support you when things are tough not just when the going is easy.
A true friend accepts you for who you are BUT always encourages you to be a better person even when sometimes you don't want to hear it. You still know deep down they are right.
A true friend is not just a shoUlder to cry on it is a shoulder to lean on. They help you stand and walk on your own through life, always there to help.
A true friend desires your happiness and joy and does not get upset when good things happen to you, just because good things aren't happening to them.
A true friend is someone you may not see for days, weeks, months even years but when you talk to them it is still like you last spoke yesterday. You don't need to be constantly in touch to stay friends, whether you saw them yesterday or ten years ago you still feel the same and can talk the same as the last time you met up with them.
A true friend is a blessing and hard to come by, most of us only get one or two in a lifetime. The only way to know a true friend to watch the people you call friends when really bad things, or really good things happen.
A true friend accepts you for who you are BUT always encourages you to be a better person even when sometimes you don't want to hear it. You still know deep down they are right.
A true friend is not just a shoUlder to cry on it is a shoulder to lean on. They help you stand and walk on your own through life, always there to help.
A true friend desires your happiness and joy and does not get upset when good things happen to you, just because good things aren't happening to them.
A true friend is someone you may not see for days, weeks, months even years but when you talk to them it is still like you last spoke yesterday. You don't need to be constantly in touch to stay friends, whether you saw them yesterday or ten years ago you still feel the same and can talk the same as the last time you met up with them.
A true friend is a blessing and hard to come by, most of us only get one or two in a lifetime. The only way to know a true friend to watch the people you call friends when really bad things, or really good things happen.
A True friend, a sincere friend who has no motives or intentions besides caring about you. They are the people who will tell you when you are wrong. They don't just listen and agree with what you say, they give honest advice and really care about your happiness. I only found out who my true friends where when true tradgedy hit my life. When everything fell apart. And everyone disappeared because they didn't know what to say or how to act. Those that we left, the ones that cried because they didn't know how to help me. The ones that helped me pick up the pieces afterward when everything was over. Those are the true friends. The ones that where still with me months later when I had a bad day and couldn't stop crying. Those are the people that went through heck with me. And they were not the people I expected. So take a look and ask yourself who of my friends will really be here. Cause the people that let me down I can't say I was really suprised, not on a deep down brutally honest with myself level. Because deep down I knew who was selfish and who wasn't. It's just sometimes we don't want to face what we have really known all along
appreciate the friendship you have now
do not regret if you don't appreciate your friendship that you have..
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